My fiance's cousins cancer came back for the 2nd time, she is only twenty one years old,?

I want to get her a gift that says we are always here for you and thinking of you. I say this to her many times but would be a good gift to get her.
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Honestly? AT this point she has had plenty of monetary or gift-like affection. I think the best gift at this point, is a day out somewhere REALLY fun that will take her mind off things if only for the day. THAT she will remember and take to heart.

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Get her a spa gift certificate. A massage, pedicure/manicure, etc. Of course if she is able, depending on the type of cancer and how ill she is. Cancer and the treatments can make you feel so bad and that can really make you feel better.physically and mentally.I wish her the best.

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Does she havehobby or a special interest in something?? Does she have a favorite band?? Think about what she likes/enjoys. How about a favorite restaurant?? She needs to be aware that you care about her. Don't be afraid to talk about her illness.She needs to express her feelings. Most people would try 2 avoid the subject because they don't know what to say.

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It really depends on how much you are willing to spend. My sons friends got him a personalized IPOD and put their pictures along with their favorite songs on it.If that is too expensive or not what you had in mind . .perhaps a personalized piece of jewelry? A necklace, ring, bracelet, or earrings?
Those little guardian angel pins are a nice gift.Or, if you want to send something sweet . . . think cupcakes or those Simply Devine Brownies that they cut into various decorated shapes are special and adorable.Some of the best gifts might be a book or a book on tape. Girls are easy to buy gifts for . .its usually the guys that are more difficult. Good luck to your fiance's cousin and her 2nd battle with her cancer. It's hard but just having the unconditional love and support of family and good friends is one of the greatest gifts she could ever receive.

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How about a prepaid cell phone (if she doesn't already own a cell). Stationary and a nice pen.. Someway that she can be sure to stay in touch, or that will let her know you want her to let you know if she needs anything.

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The best gift for her now is to rid the cancer cells and stop the cancer from coming back again. You can definitely get her something but knowing that you support her would be the best gift for her. While I was having cancer, my friends would bring flowers, chocolates, and shower me with gifts. However the best gifts actually I have from them are their numerous text messages, emails (both are best "non-invasive" way of keeping touch and sending regards) and visits.You might want to get her a customized designed mug with a message from you %26 your fiance, or something she can use day in day out would be good to "constantly" remind her that you guys are with her.If possible, try to help her with her diet. I think it's very important to keep to a healthy diet so as to not "tigger" the cancer cells "alive" again...
Raw beetroot and carrot juice is a superb natural antioxidant.
Raw brocolli juice is a superb natural antioxidant too, but not many people can take the taste. Alternative is to steam or boil it and eat it plain, just like that.
Tumeric (a kinda spice) can be used to season n coat meats before pan-frying, apparently its a antioxidant too.
If possible, try to clear any other medication or supplements with the doc before taking them to make sure they do not clash with the treatment (especially so for chemotherapy).
Try to avoid rumoured or proven cancer causing stuff like smoking, aspartame or any other food preservatives or addictives, etc...
Try to avoid crowded places as her immunity would be low and thus more prone to flus and such. One of my mum's friend, a cancer patient, got chicken pox from her son and died about 3 months later...Care and concern is the best gift for almost all cancer patients...

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