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Tuesday, May 25, 2010

My mom has cancer what will i do?

She got stomach cancer she kept it secret now she keeps gettings sick everyday and she refuses treatment im 13 what if she dies ill have nothing to live for
Answer:
You're awesome.
If she dies, you'll have the best guardian angel ever watching over you and you will feel her presence!
Until then, every day is a gift. Love her, appreciate her, help her.
Be strong and support her. Make sure you help around the house as much as you can. Show her that she can count on you. Pray for her. Tell her you love her and spend a lot of time with her. You can do it.Cancer is not always a death sentence anymore with the treatments available. Still, your mom has some things she can do herself to get better. Taking treatments is one of those things.
Yes, you will have the rest of your life to live for. You must treat each day she has as a special gift and be with her as much as you can. She is coping with her illness the berst way she knows how. You will grow up, do your best always and know she will be watching over you. God Bless. My daughter lost her Dad at 13..she is now a Mom to 2 little girls and is a happy person. You will survive. Pray
In the end the choice not to have treatment is hers and while you may not understand why it's going to come down to what are both of you doing with the time you have left. She may be sick but I'm betting that there are things you could do to put away a few good memories for when times get bad and she's not there.There is always something to live for. It may take time to find it and time for you to feel up to tackling what it is but it's there. Find something you feel strongly about and can poor your time and energy into without overly stressing yourself.
How about if you ask your mom that. Perhaps it will give her reason to get treatment for her cancer.
Gee sweetie so sorry to hear about your mum, you must be really scared, try not to be as frightened as you are. you may be able to help mum in small ways around the house or just help mum by getting a bucket if your mum is sick. talk to your school councellor, about the problem, try an aunt or an uncle.
maybe even your mum, tell her how you are feeling, if mum gets really sick, ring an ambulance to take her to the hospitial and you jump into the ambulance too. stomach cancer is fixable, but that choice is up to your mum. goodluck you can email me if you want to keep safe and godbless little one
I thought the same thing when my mom died when i was 17. It is never anything one hopes will happen, it just does. You need to spend as much time as possible with her and let her know how important she is and that if she fights the disease you will be right by her side. Let he know she doesn't have to do this alone. You need to just be there for her and tell her you love her every day. That is one thing I truely regret with my mom.hang in there....it is never easy....
hey, i know what you are going through, my dad died in 2000 when i was 8 years old. if your mom is dieing then she should get treatment. there is a chance she will make it. get her to go in as soon as possible. for coping with cancer you should go with your family to a theripist, that is what we did and it really helped. i would also suggest going to disney so if she does not make it at least your last memories of her will be your best. there are also books that can help you. be nice to your mom and show love and affection before it is to late. best wishes towards you and your family, hope everything works out great.
you really have to listen. you have to tell an adult to buy a bottle of Cesium Chloride with Rubidium from nutrition 2000. They are on the net. It costs over 100 but it can and will save your mothers life...
http://www.cellfood.com/coyle.pdf...

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